Damned if I do and damned if I dont!

I have been thinking about going back to work for some time now, so when I actually went for a job interview I was stunned by the way people reacted when I mentioned I would put LS childcare while I was at work? I thought had literally said "I would leave her at home alone".

They made me feel like such a bad person..no a bad mum for even suggesting I leave my 2year old with trained professionals for a few hours a day while I work.Now I feel awful about even thinking about working.

And you know what makes it worse? The fact that when people know that I'm a stay at home mum they judge me again, thinking as I'm young I must be a lazy women who sits at home watching Jeremy Kyle all day!!!

I know I shouldn't let other people opinions bother me but when I feel like my parenting is being questioned I feel so awful, I'm a good mum, I have my sisters to thanks for that but now I feel like I'm just going to be judged more for actually wanting to provide for my daughter!

What I really want to know if what do you think?

Have you ever been made to feel like this?

Thanks

YMS xx

Im Back!!!

After a few months way I can wait to get back and blogging!! I hope you have missed me and LS as we have missed you! Look out for my new Blog!!! xxxxx

2011!!

Hello 2011!!




I hope everyone had a great Christmas and New Year!



For some reason I am VERY excited about this year! I don’t know whether its because I am becoming an Auntie for the second time or something else all I know is it feels like a good year!



As I said 2011 will see me becoming a auntie for the second time, but I will also be 21, my daughter will be 2 and starting nursery and growing into a completely different little girl!



Have a Fab 2011 everybody!



Thanks



YMS xxx